Lamu 2009

– Yeah, right, all this story about your Turkana trip sounds slightly crazy but cool… how about Lamu? Isn’t that the place where all wealthy hippie-wannabe Europeans go “hide”? (I wonder how you could possibly hide if everybody seems to have the same hiding place! Would you go hiding in Marbella or Ibiza?)

– “Well, yes, that is exactly the place. A tiny island off the Kenyan coast very close to the Somali border”

– Huh, huh, so tell me, you spent 4 days on the beach just relaxing?

– Not quite. I spent 4 days at Anidan, the orphanage run by Rafael Selas, living with the children. An amazing experience which, of course, also included some beach and a lot of playing with the kids!

If you ever go to Lamu, just stop by and see it by yourself. Otherwise, why don’t you learn more at www.anidan.org? It definitely is a cause worth contributing and with a very small effort you can really change somebody’s life.

ABOUT ANIDAN

Anidan was founded by Rafael Selas 6 years ago. When I visited Lamu in 2007, they had all the children in a house in Lamu Town, and they were struggling for space. At the time they were building the new facilities, with capacity for 250-300 children at the “shamba”, around 20 minutes walk from Lamu center, next to an amazingly beautiful beach.

The Shamba is a large piece of land that includes the main building, a dormitory for boys, another for girls and a hospital from the Pablo Hoffman foundation. Anidan currently has 300 children, some of which stay overnight and other who sleep with their parents.

All of the children have been admitted on a case-by-case basis, all of them with terrible stories of poverty and starvation, of rape and beating, of being neglected by parents and family, of death from AIDs or any other disease… All this children have found in ANIDAN the family they never had and now they can go back to where they should have never left: childhood.

At Anidan I found boys and girls, of all religions and ages, playing together and taking care of each other. Life a family with 300 children!

To my surprise, I found that everything was really well organized. Shower and bed time, playtime, studying, going on day-trips… Each one has a little space for his/her belongings: clothes, tower… They all share their toys and, actually, make their own games… It reminded me a lot of my schooldays. No playstation, no TV… who needs them? These children use their imagination to play, and the result is amazing.

But, on top of all, to me ANIDAN is a MIRACLE. It is the story of someone, Rafa, who one day decided to leave everything and follow his dream: giving children an opportunity and turning their dreams into realities. Through Anidan he managed to align all the most impossible stars in the universe to make things happen. His enthusiasm is so contagious that he was soon joined by a team of really committed and highly qualified people who are today the managers of Anidan.

ANIDAN is a story of hope, a story of opportunities and the proof that miracles happen. We all had our dreams when we were children. It is actually the opportunity to dream what keeps us alive, what makes us look forward to the future. For one reason or another, the children of Anidan one day lost the most valuable thing they had: their hopes, their dreams, their opportunity to become who they wanted to be in life.

Thanks to Rafa and his team, today those children smile again and laugh. They laugh because they know they are safe, they can continue dreaming and one day, the opportunity they deserve will be there for them. It is thanks to people like you and me, who believe in Rafa, that the miracle of Anidan is possible. It is thanks to people like Rafa, that those children will one day see their dreams come true.

Thanks Rafa, thanks Anidan, for letting us be part of your dream, for inviting us all to be part of Anidan. The world really needs more Rafas, it really needs more ANIDANs so that everybody would have an opportunity in life!

The dormitories

The new dorms at the shamba: boys and girs
The new dorms at the shamba: boys and girls

 

The rooms with the boxes to keep the children's things. Each room sleeps 8 children
The rooms with the boxes to keep the children's things. Each room sleeps 6 children

 

Children are assigned to a room according to their age
Children are assigned to a room depending on their age (and gender)
Frida, one of the managers of Anidan, with one of the girls
Frida, one of the managers of Anidan, with one of the girls

 

The Pablo Hoffmann Hospital 

 

The hospital. It receives an average of 100 children per day
The hospital. It receives an average of 100 children per day
Dr. Louise, from Congo, who is always smiling and full of energy. Her personal story is a case itself of courage and resilience
Dr. Louise, from Congo, who is always smiling and full of energy. Her personal story is a case itself of courage and resilience

 

The Nursery School

The nursery school with the teacher
The nursery school with the teacher

 

Only the small ones have class in Anidan. The rest attend school outside
Only the small ones have class in Anidan. The rest attend school outside

The  massai watchmen

There are 3 massais who work as watchmen at Anidan.

  

The massai watchment
The massai watchment

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Typical massai earpiercing
Typical massai earpiercing

 

ABOUT LAMU

Lamu has two main parts, Lamu Town, in the center, and Shella, where many tourists go. In front of the island, there is another island, Manda, where several wealthy families have their mansions, as well as in Shella.

Lamu is well known for its relaxed atmosphere, the donkeys in the streets (as there are no cars), its nice hotels and villas, the beaches and the seafood…

Unfortunately there is another side of Lamu, which is not known to the occasional tourist and most times ignored by the same wealthy people who use the island as  a retreat. There is a very dark side of Lamu: one of children without rights, of malaria, AIDS and disease, of hunger and poverty, of rape and abuse.  This is the side that Anidan is fighting to change, with an amazing success rate.

Approaching Lamu and Manda from the small plane
Approaching Lamu and Manda from the small plane

 

Lamu Town at the seafront
Lamu Town at the seafront

 

Donkey riding, the main means of transportation in the island
Donkey riding, the main means of transportation in the island

 

Some of the narrow streets at Lamu Town
Some of the narrow streets at Lamu Town

 

Donkeys on the beach...
Donkeys on the beach...

 

Donkeys everywhere!
Donkeys everywhere!

 

 

 

Nice place!
Nice place!

 

The wel-known Peponi hotel... an amazing view of sunset from the terrace
The wel-known Peponi hotel... an amazing view of sunset from the terrace

 

Walking by the sea between Lamu and Shella
Walking by the sea between Lamu and Shella

 

The BORANA Village

Right next to Anidan there is a borana village. Everybody at the village is extremely poor, so their children go, study and feed at Anidan and go back at night to sleep at home.

For some reason, all of the men in the village were killed and the eldest man is a 20 year-old boy, Abdelkadir, who, after spending years at Anidan, is now studying a technical degree sponsored by Rotary Club Madrid Zurbarán, and one day will become the chief of the village.

 

Borana village
Borana village

 

Borana woman who also works at Anidan
Borana woman who also works at Anidan

 

Borana woman
Borana woman

 

Happy with a lollypop and a balloon...
Happy with a lollypop and a balloon...

A day at the beach

It was Sunday so, as a special day, Fernando, a Spanish supporter of Anidan who owns a villa very close to the Shamba, and his family, invited 30 of the Anidan children to spend the day at the beach in Manda Island.

So there we went, some in the speedboat and some in the dhow, the traditional sailboat, and spent the day eating, playing and swimming at an amazing beach, just in front of Shella and the Peponi, on the other side of the channel where most foreigners go wind and kite surfing. Thanks Fernando!

Hi, I am Captain Smile... Welcome to the Anidan boat!
Hi, I am Captain Smile... Welcome to the Anidan boat!

 

There we go! Quite a few of us with Captain Smile towards Manda Island
There we go! Quite a few of us with Captain Smile towards Manda Island

 

The oldest boys played football at the beach...
The oldest boys played football at the beach...

 

... and walked around waiting for lunch
... and walked around waiting for lunch

 

while I played one of those jumping games that I had not played since school...
while I played one of those jumping games that I had not played since school...

 

... with Mary Gitau, my beautiful goddaughter
... with Mary Gitau, my beautiful goddaughter

 

Lunch: 2 goats that we took on the boat and were slaughtered at the beach!
Lunch: 2 goats that we took on the boat and were slaughtered at the beach!

 

Ready to go back...
Ready to go back...

 

... in the Anidan sailboat!
... in the Anidan sailboat!

 

A day with MELBA

Melba is one of the Anidan girls. She is 21 years old and has just finished her 3rd year of Tourism at the Kampala University, in Uganda. Her studies were sponsored by Rotary Club Madrid Zurbarán and I wanted to meet her to learn some more about her, her background and what she plans to do in the future.

Future? This word sounds great when referred to an Anidan children. Thanks to donors, to people like you and me who worry about them and decide to help Rafa, the word future is back to these children’s vocabulary.

Melba is an amazing girl. I had a great time with her walking from the Shamba to Lamu and then to Shella for hours. She is so prepared, so interesting, so mature and yet so nice, so much willing to help other people, that I felt really happy to see that it is true, that each one of us can have a huge impact in somebody’s life. My Rotary Club has for sure changed Melba’s life. Let’s hope that we can all change the lives of all Anidan children!

Let me introduce you to Melba!
Let me introduce you to Melba!

 

Having a quick drink at Lamu House and saying Hello to Frank, the owner
Having a quick drink at Lamu House and saying Hello to Frank, the owner

 

An exhausting day walking for hours, except for a 5-minute donkey ride. I had to try it!
An exhausting day walking for hours, except for a 5-minute donkey ride. I had to try it!

 

The ANIDAN CHILDREN

And here comes the most important and amazing part of the story: the children. Each one of them has a terrible story behind but you could never guess because they are always smiling and laughing.

These are pictures of some of the children at Anidan, who let me be part of their very special family for a few days. And it really felt like being at home, a loving home where everybody respects and cares about the others.

Rafa Selas and team, CONGRATULATIONS FOR THE AMAZING WORK YOU ARE DOING WITH THESE CHILDREN!

Ester and Sofia on the beach. Sofia is one of the last children to arrive at Anidan
Ester and Sofia on the beach. Sofia is one of the last children to arrive at Anidan

 

So cute!
So cute!

 

Mud-hat, the youngest in Anidan. She has already undergone one open-heart surgery and is awaiting a second one
Mud-hat, the youngest in Anidan. She has already undergone one open-heart surgery and is awaiting a second one

 

Shekha, 11. Arrived at Anidan weak and undernourished and now is one of the leaders of the family
Shekha, 11. Arrived at Anidan weak and undernourished and now is one of the leaders of the family

 

Margarita, named after Rafael's mother, is one of the most active and funny girls you will ever meet. An amazing personality
Margarita, named after Rafael's mother, is one of the most active and funny girls you will ever meet. An amazing personality

 

Joki, arrived two months ago at Anidan with her 2 siblings with a terrible story. Now she is fully integrated and happy at Anidan
Joki, arrived two months ago with her 2 siblings with a terrible story. Now she is fully integrated and happy at Anidan

 

Elan, "the burnt girl". Always smiling, so lovely that you cannot guess that her back is still healing from burning in a fire. It took her family 8 days to bring her from Somalia to the hospital and she was nearly dead when she arrived. After 2 months at the hospital, she is ready to go back to Somalia... although she would love to stay at Anidan. I cannot avoid wondering what will happen to her when she gets back home: marriage at 12-13, illiteracy...
Elan, "the burnt girl". Always smiling, so lovely that you cannot guess that her back is still healing from burning in a fire. It took her family 8 days to bring her from Somalia to the hospital and she was nearly dead when she arrived. After 2 months at the hospital, she is ready to go back to Somalia... although she would love to stay at Anidan. I cannot avoid wondering what will happen to her when she gets back home: marriage at 12-13, illiteracy...

 

Mary Gitau, "my Mary", who is 11 and loves dancing. Her friends call her Mary Shakira
Mary Gitau, "my Mary", who is 11 and loves dancing. Her friends call her Mary Shakira

 

Anidan children wearing "El Chupete" t-shirts, next to the hospital. Thank El Chupete for the t-shirts! They loved them!
Anidan children wearing "El Chupete" t-shirts, next to the hospital. Thanks El Chupete for the t-shirts! They loved them!

 

Hairdo time! The girls love it and they always look great in their different hairstyles
Hairdo time! The girls love it and they always look great in their different hairstyles

 

Playing at the beach
Playing at the beach

 

More playtime
More playtime

 

Go figure, this could be the beginning of a new rappers group!
Go figure, this could be the beginning of a new rappers group!

 

They are so cute and look so professional!
They are so cute and look so professional!

 

Mary with her two friends: Ester and Amina. Amina, 12, has been in Anidan for 6 years, together with her sister. Both of their parents died of AIDS
Mary with her two friends: Ester and Amina. Amina, 12, has been in Anidan for 6 years, together with her sister. Both of their parents died of AIDS. Seeing that she is 12 I start thinking about the other girls that were forced to marry at this age with much older men. They are just girls! At least Amina and her sister will not have t o go through that

 

Ester and Shekha
Ester and Shekha

 

With Elan
With Elan

 

With "crazy Joki"
With "crazy Joki"

 

Singing farewell songs and dacing. So sad to leave!
Singing farewell songs and dacing. So sad to leave!

 

SOME OF THE STORIES

At Anidan, all children have really hard stories behind. Once they are there, they become part of the family and somehow they leave behind whatever it was that brought them there. Many of them are orphans and others have parents but, in practice, it is like if they did not. Some others even have loving parents who are just too poor to even feed them once a day.

Most of them arrived undernourished and sick. Many had either no family or some family tragedy behind. Here I write, as an example, some of the stories that I shared with the children while at Anidan. If I had not been there and seen it personally, I would have found them difficult to believe… The following are extracts from my notebook, that I normally carry around so that I do not forget what I am living!

Married at 13

Today I met “Y” an amazingly beautiful girl. She had henna tattoos in her hands and arms and looked quite happy and smiley.

Just when I was asking Frida and Robi, two of the managers of Anidan, for the stories of some children they told me: “Look, she is one of the ones you are looking for. Her story is brutal”.

Apparently she had been within the Anidan radar for many years. Probably one of the first girls to join, from a very poor background, so she had a family but she studied and ate at Anidan.

When “Y” turned 12, her family decided to engage her to a much older man against her will. All in vane, they decided to proceed with the engagement and the wedding.

I was told that Rafa tried everything in his power to prevent such wedding from happening, and, although the wedding actually took place, he continued trying to free the girl from her personal nightmare.

And he finally succeeded. The girl reported the arranged marriage and moved back to Anidan… It was almost as if her nightmare had never happened… almost… because when she went back to Anidan she was already pregnant.

Today “Y” is a 14 year-old beautiful girl and she and her son are part of the huge Anidan family.

Unfortunately this story is not a one-off. There are many girls like “Y” who are forced into marriage at the ages of 12-14.  Another of Anidan’s best students, who will hopefully soon go to university managed to escape from her arranged marriage. She went to the police and reported her family.

This is a really tough decision for the girls, because it breaks any bonds with their families, but it is their only opportunity to escape an unhappy destiny: married at 13 with a much older man who normally rapes them and beats them up.

 

 The 3 orphans

These were the last children who joined Anidan, aged 2, 3 and 6. Seeing them you would never guess that only 2 months ago they witnessed how their father slaughtered their mother in their presence.  The story was so unbelievable to the Anidan team that they requested some evidence to verify that it was true. Apparently they were shocked to see the pictures and police report.

The 3 children stayed with their grandmother, who could not take care of them. The neighbours told her about Anidan and she sent them to Lamu with María, one of the managers.

Today you can see them playing like any other children, totally happy and fully integrated with the rest. They are another lesson of resilience, of how the human nature is ready to fight for survival and overcome any traumatic experience.

 

Orphans of AIDS

This is the story of two sisters, but unfortunately also the story of many more of the Anidan children.

Amina is a beautiful 12 year-old girl, with amazing eyes. She and her sister Zahara, are amongst the first children who joined Anidan.

When they were very young they first lost their father, then their mother. Both of them died of AIDS. In Amina’s words: “First my father died and then my mother, so now my father is Rafa and my mother is Niwana (Rafa’s wife).

How lucky for these two orphans to have Rafa and Niwana as their parents. What happened to them is a common tragedy in Lamu. What is not so common is to be as lucky as to find a new family. Amina and Zahara today play and smile like any other children, and, I love talking to them and listening to their dreams for the future. “I want to be a teacher” “I want to be a doctor” “Great, so now girls, you know what you have to do: study a lot and fight for your opportunities. Inshallah”.

 

Raped

S is an amazing girl. So much energy, such a big smile. A natural leader.

She is the daughter of a prostitute in Lamu and grew up in the least child-friendly environment possible: drugs, prostitution, pimps…  Living in these conditions, she was raped several times. When her mother learnt about it, she reported the rapist to the police, who was sent to court and found guilty. Today the rapist is in jail and S lives in Anidan, trying to forget her past and concentrating in what the future will bring to her.

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  1. Paula felicitaciones por las fotos, el texto y por tu energia. Me encanto saber un poco mas sobre Anidan!! Ademas ellos son un ejemplo de que el mundo si puede ser mejor.

    Un abrazo fuerte.

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